Now as you can tell i haven't really been blogging much on here D: I feel really bad.. Its just I have been pretty busy with school and you know that kinda stuff! But from know on I am going to try to blog on each of my..links,or other blogs on my blog. Whatever you want to call them?
Anyways, so this week I have been really thinking about gossiping. I don't really know why but I just have, so I thought I would talk about it with you guys and give you my advice and tell you what i think about gossiping! So firsts off gossiping is just wrong. I am pretty positive all girls or even boys know this but they do it anyways. I think its kinda a way to make your self feel better because your making fun of someone else.. I think almost everyone at SOME point in there life goes through a faze where you do something. For me it was gossiping.
This was about a year ago. I thought it was cool to gossip cause all my friends did but then later when I moved away to the UK and have now realized that gossiping is just horrible! I think having moved away it made me get to know who I am better.. other then just trying to fit in. You know what I mean?
So yes, I was a gossiper. But I leaned my lesson about gossiping because it will just end up stabbing me in the heart. And to honest think i hung out with the wrong kinda people back then. I mean there nice and all but we had nothing in common.. but then again there where only 10 girls in the class.(Small school) OK sorry getting off topic. Anyways so here are some tips on how to not gossip. And how to not be gossiped about.
1. Try to see the positive side in life.
Yes this my sound kinda stupid but it is true! If you only see the down side to things then its more likely that you will gossip. Why? Well because then you will see all the down sides to other people and there flaws.Then to make yourself feel better you might.. gossip ):
2. Don't hang out with people who gossip.
If you don't want to gossip you self then why hangout with people that gossip? They will just end up rubbing there gossipness(yes i made up a word) on to you! Also if you hang out with people that gossip then its likely they gossip about you as well when your not around!
3. Try to stay true to you self.
Try to stay true to yourself somehow because then if you realise that gossiping is bad you can try to go back! And hopefully meet new friends and start over. But if you get a reputation about being a gossiper no one will trust you. (this happened to someone i know)
I hope this helps you(: I will be posting again in about 2 days cause I NEED to post more on here xD But after my next couple of posts i will only be posting about once a week on here! :D
Lots of Love
~Ari
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